Hey Brother

Brothers are gross.
It’s true.
All brothers must agree, that, indeed, they are gross.
A large portion of their lives has been devoted to perfecting their foulness. They’ve mastered the art of burping and blowing it into the faces of little girls.
At the dinner table.
When nobody’s looking.
They’ve mastered the art of farting on their little sister’s pillow. Perhaps not at the dinner table, but just as she’s set to go to bed, bear clutched in her shaking and useless fist.
Again, he does this when nobody looks on but the frustrated child who will forever remember the brother’s cruelty and wait, patiently, until she can use it against him as he grows older.
Being a sister I am familiar with the grossness of brothers. Comparing notes with friends, I realized I had it pretty good, all things considered.
While gross, my brother was also a fraidy cat. Petrified of the wrath of the father, he would torment, certainly, but with one shriek from the little sister, one cry of alarm or frustration, the parentals would come running to the defense.
He plotted his torture carefully.
He’d go for weeks without being gross at all, and would change up his tactics so as to drive one mad rather than make one physically ill.
For weeks he’d subsist on hovering over the sister, standing before her on the couch and daring her to stand up.
When she’d try, he’d push her back down. Try again, back down she goes. Having no patience for homework or mowing the lawn, this brother would stand before his sister for what seemed like days. Pleading with him never worked, nor did bribes. He stood with a menacing grin over her — his shadow making her shiver — but he would not budge. Up she stands, back down she goes.
Until dad came home.
For one whole summer the brother took up a new torture. Every time his sister would walk past, he would jab at her sides, right up in that tender spot right above the pelvic bone.
The sister became so conditioned to expect the abuse that, by summer’s end she was jerking away before even being accosted. To this day, she takes a wide berth from her brother, and jumps back whenever her husband stretches out his hands in the direction of her waist.
On comparing gross notes with a friend, however, it could have been worse.
Not only was this friend someone’s sister, but she had TWO brothers. And the oldest wasn’t afraid of anything.
She recalls being pinned down on the basement floor while her brother launched loogies out of his putrid mouth, dangling his snotty saliva milimetres from her upturned face. If she struggled too much she ran the risk of that pendulum of goo landing square on her forehead — or worse. He’d dangle it there, then suck it back up. Dangle it some more, suck it up.
It never ended well.
The same brother spent half an afternoon chasing his little sister around and around the house with a salamander skewered on a nail, threatening to make her eat it.
And, as a child, there’s really no differentiating between levels of gross — dead salamander or dripping gob of mucus. It’s all one and the same.
Another friend, another sister, recounted her story of a sweaty teenaged brother who trapped her in a sticky headlock for what seemed like hours.
Stuck there, years younger and several dozen pounds lighter, she had to endure his stench. The scars carry forward to this day.
Fact is, brothers are gross, and they don’t become any less so as they age. Sure, they stop blowing burp breath into people’s faces, and they begin farting at more appropriate times and in more appropriate places.
But memories of their grossness remain carefully chiseled into their sister’s minds.
So, when a woman steps up and says she plans to marry this aforementioned brother, willingly commits to living with him, farts and all, it seems bizarre, somewhat sad and not a little bit crazy.
This sister is befuddled. When the announcement was made, she shook her head in disbelief, and asked the sweet-mannered woman “Why?”
“You know he smells bad, right?”
While I’m happy for the loving couple, I’m still confused. Skeptical.
But then again, someone married the loogie brother. God help her.